Lady Confused as Politician Sponsor Says Doesn't Want Child after She Got Pregnant, Expert Advises
- A Nairobi lady, who has been dating her neighbour's ex-boyfriend, was happy after discovering she was pregnant for him
- However, the married politician made it clear to her that he didn't want kids with her, giving her two options
- Speaking to TUKO.co.ke, relationship expert Jane Murimi advised the lady on what to do
Anonymous wrote:
"I (37) recently discovered that I was pregnant for this vocal married politician, however, after informing him, he has threatened to dump me if I don't get rid of the pregnancy. We've been dating for two years now. He was my neighbour's sponsor but after meeting at my previous place in the parking lot we exchanged contacts and started dating. He moved me to a new apartment in Kileleshwa and life has been sweet until I got pregnant. He is insisting I get rid of the pregnancy if I want him to continue with the relationship yet I've always wanted to have a child. What should I do?"
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Jane Murimi Mugo is a qualified relationship and marriage expert with over 12 years of experience in counselling. She is a published author of Caged and is working on another mental health book.
Choices have consequences, be wise in your decisions - Jane Murimi
The relationship counsellor advised the lady to make the right choices so that she doesn't regret later.
She opined that the lady made a mistake in wrecking her neighbour's relationship, thinking she had bagged the man for life.
First, he has zero respect for you, whether you. He wanted her for pleasure. Terminating the pregnancy will do more harm than good. Let her play reverse psychology to win the guy. Leave and vow to save your baby over the relationship. He may be empathetic and opt to support you," she shared.
Adding:
"...she has always wanted to have a child. Let her have it...that could be her first and last. Also, hope she was wise enough to save a few coins for rainy days."
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Murimi said after the pregnancy news, the man has zero feelings for the lady, hence why he asked her to terminate the pregnancy.
Disclaimer: Advice given in this article is general and is not intended to influence readers' decisions about solving marital problems. They should always seek professional advice that considers their circumstances before making a marriage decision.
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Lady confesses to dating politician and son
In another story, a 36-year-old lady wrote to TUKO.co.ke about her affair with her politician father-in-law, seeking help.
The lady revealed she had been dating her father-in-law for five years and was scared things could turn ugly if her man discovered the affair.
The mother of two disclosed that her second born child was sired by her father-in-law and the politician provides KSh 70,000 for upkeep monthly.
Relationship expert, Jane Murimi advised the woman to end both relationships before the cat is out of the bag.
Proofreading by Asher Omondi, copy editor at TUKO.co.ke.
Source: TUKO.co.ke
