Sanapei Tande Admits She Still Communicates with Ex-Boyfriends: "No Hard Feelings"
- Renowned singer Sanapei Tande championed amicable post-breakup relations, citing her experience
- According to her, life is short, and there is no need for anger after a breakup unless abuse or extreme actions were involved
- The veteran musician shared that she would even help her ex find new partners if asked for advice
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Celebrated Kenyan artiste and actress Sanapei Tande has revealed that she remains in touch with her ex-boyfriends.
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The Amina hitmaker believes there is no reason to hold on to anger after a relationship ends.
Is Sanapei Tande in touch with exes?
In an interview with Dr. Ofweneke, Tande shared her perspective on maintaining cordial relationships with ex-lovers.
According to her, the idea of staying angry with an ex-lover seems unnecessary unless there were extreme circumstances like violence or betrayal.
"Why are we angry? Why are we angry? It just didn't work. That is so much nonsense, I think so. I mean, unless you were with somebody who used to beat you a good one, or bring other ladies or men to the house. I mean, unless it was something that extreme, I don't see any reason why you should not have a cordial relationship with your ex," she said during the interview.
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Why you shouldn't cut your exes off
The superstar pointed out that life is too short to hold grudges.
"Life is short. No hard feelings. Keep moving," she added.
She encouraged fans and fellow women to let go of past conflicts and embrace peace and maturity after a relationship ends.
Tande hilariously suggested that women should consider helping their ex-boyfriends find new relationships.
In her words:
"If anything, find him a chile (lady)."
She also explained that if her ex ever approached her for advice about a woman he was interested in, she would be more than willing to give an honest opinion, but with a caveat.
"If the X is asking me, what do you think about that chile? I will be honest with you," she stated.
Why can't Sanapei Tande do hookups?
However, Tande made it clear that she wouldn't get involved in the emotional drama that sometimes comes with breakups.
"The one thing I don't do, honestly, I don't hook people up. That one. I do not want to be caught in the middle of nonsense," she said.
She added that she would avoid being put in a situation where she would have to listen to complaints or rehash old relationship issues.
"I don't want this business of calling me for an hour to complain about someone," she joked.
Here is what netizens wrote:
neisa_varl:
"If you still communicate with exes, you are not happy."
lex254ke:
"She has never dated, why talk of something you've not tried."
al3k0.1911._:
"I can nevaaa do such a thing."
vahsel999:
"I'm in contact with all my exes na ni me bado huwa block."
official_stacy_kenya:
"I support her! Your ex is not your enemy! So I'm the only one who still loves my ex so deeply? I’d still do anything for him—I said anything. And life happened… We went our separate ways, but that doesn’t mean we became strangers or enemies. I still pray for him. I still bless him. Whoever is with my ex now found something good, because he once had something great—me. We were blessings to each other. The thing is—know who you’re dating. You don’t need to be in love to still hold love in your heart. Exes aren’t enemies. Sometimes, they’re just a part of your soul’s journey."
Why did Sanapei Tande roast Maina Kageni?
Previously, the musician challenged Maina Kageni over his previous comments about her refusing to have his child.
Sanaipei explained how those remarks followed her for years.
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