Kenyan TikToker Goes Viral for Sharing 10 Harsh Truths She Learned after Graduation
- Kenyan TikToker J. Ruth has captured the raw struggles faced after graduation, top among them being unemployment
- From shattered expectations to mental health battles, she listed 10 eye-opening lessons that resonated deeply with thousands
- Her candid reflections highlight the silent pain many graduates endure in isolation and survival as they navigate life after school
- The emotional video has since sparked widespread conversation among young Kenyans online who resonated with her story
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A Kenyan TikToker identified as J. Truth has sparked a wave of emotional reactions online after candidly sharing 10 eye-opening lessons she learned the hard way after graduating.

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Her video, which has resonated with thousands of young Kenyans, especially fresh graduates, paints a raw picture of the often-unspoken struggles that follow academic achievement.
Unemployment is real
In the now-viral video, J. Truth begins by admitting that the first reality was learning that “unemployment is real and it comes with depression."
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Her post shed light on the mental health toll many young people face post-graduation after searching for work in vain.
Her second point warns against relying on relatives for job opportunities, bluntly stating that such expectations often lead to disappointment.
She humorously yet solemnly mentions that post-graduation life turns one into a “prayer warrior by force,” especially when prayer becomes the only lifeline.

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Comparisons lead to disillusionment
J Truth also advises against rushing to move out of one’s parents’ home without financial stability, noting that societal pressure can be misleading.
The TikToker encourages self-discovery, urging graduates to use their strengths strategically and grab every opportunity to acquire new skills.
She stresses the importance of maintaining close friendships to safeguard one’s mental health and avoid isolation.
Comparisons with more successful peers, she warns, are dangerous and unproductive, reminding viewers that everyone has their unique journey.
Never stop trying
She also bravely speaks on a common yet under-discussed issue: the exploitation of young women in the job market, cautioning them to stay alert and assertive.
J Truth's final piece of advice is simple but powerful:
“Never stop sending your CVs to potential employers.”
She insists that persistence is key, no matter how long the job search takes.
J Truth's video has sparked conversations across social media, with many praising her honesty and relating deeply to her experience.
Her message is a sobering but empowering reminder of the realities of life after graduation and the resilience needed to survive it.
Kenyan woman shares 5 culture shocks about the US
Elsewhere, a Kenyan woman opened up about the harsh realities of life in the US, a sharp contrast to what she expected.
Born and raised in Kenya, Anne Waruinge grew up believing that America is a land of opportunity where everything flows freely.

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That was until she relocated in 2018 and was shocked at how cold, unforgiving, and lonely the country is.
She shared five culture shocks that continue bothering her, adding that she would gladly return home if she found a well-paying job.
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