Woman Panics as Baby Daddy Who Got Divorced, Tells Her Husband Lies, Starts Destroying Her Marriage
- A married woman is scared that her union may fall apart soon after her baby daddy, Tom, talked to her husband and fed him lies
- According to the woman, they broke up over a decade ago, but a life-changing event in her husband's life made him start pursuing her single-mindedly
- Counsellor Dann Mathews Were shared with TUKO.co.ke some insight on what people who marry spouses who had kids from previous relationships face
A woman has expressed fear that her baby daddy, whom she broke up with 12 years ago, is now coming after her marriage, as his union is now over.
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According to the lady, she got married two years after her relationship with baby daddy, Tom, ended, and he would call once in a while to ask after his child.
"It wasn’t constant communication, so I allowed it until our boy was old enough to talk to him without my involvement. Regardless, he still found reasons to talk to me. I don’t know what happened or how it happened, but I heard that he got a divorce," said the woman.
"After that, his communication changed. He started telling me that we should get back together. I don’t care that you are married, I still love you," said the baby daddy.
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In the beginning, the woman blocked him and didn’t want to give him the faintest idea that she was interested in that kind of talk.
He didn’t care, though; he contacted her with another number and continued to pester the lady to leave her husband for him.
In his quest to get his baby mama back, the man apologised for the past and said he’d do things differently. He also made grand promises of things he would do for her if she took him back.
Why is Tom pursuing a married woman?
"I made it clear I wasn’t interested, and then I blocked that number too. If there’s one thing about Tom, he interprets no, as try harder. He is not one to stop until he gets what he wants. At some point, I had to change my number and cut him off from our son, just so he wouldn’t have any access to me. It didn’t work. He still found me," she said.
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"I have lost count of the numbers I have blocked from him. Whenever he calls with a new number, I block it, but he is like an infestation of cockroaches. You crush one, only to find that they never stop coming," she complained.
Later, the lady got her daddy involved, and despite a stern warning, Tom didn't budge. In 2024, he called while she was with her husband, and when the latter confronted him, Tom said:
“Why are you about to fight with me because of a prostitute. Only an unserious simp would have time for a woman every man has had. Then he hung up," she said.
"My husband barely spoke to me after that phone call. He allowed something Tom only said to spite him to get to him. I thought the two of them talking man to man was a good idea, but it has disrupted the peace in my home. Hubby has changed drastically. Every little misunderstanding we have earns me the insult, you are a town helper. Now, he looks at me with disgust," she said.
Why did Tom lie to baby mama's husband?
Despite the woman being a loyal, faithful and respectful wife her husband didn't believe her.
While her marriage is sinking, Tom is still in the background, refusing to go away. His new argument is that her husband is immature.
“He is not a man, he is a boy who cannot think for himself. Leave him and come to me," he said.
"Even if he was the last man on earth, I would never go back to him. My concern is, how do I restore calm in my house? I know now that I made a mistake when I let him talk to Tom. How do I fix it? How do I get him to look at me with love and respect again? I miss the days when we were happy," she said.
TUKO.co.ke reached out to pastor and counsellor Dann Mathews Were said that the case is very troubling but more common than people know.
"It can happen that the baby daddy will try to spoil for the lady he had a child with or a woman may try to spoil for the man she had a child with. When you marry someone with a child you should know that there may be interference from her past and a couple should work together to ensure that they stand strong," she added.
Baba Wangeci's baby mama exposes him
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In another story, Mama Wangeci was helpless after her young daughter was taken away, and her baby vanished with her into thin air.
However, while away in Saudi Arabia, she saw her daughter on TikTok with her dad, Baba Wangeci, and it forced her to return home.
Mama Wangeci recently took to TikTok to expose her baby daddy, leaking crucial documents in their daughter's custody battle case.
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