Kiambu Man Married for 14 Years without Child Permits Wife to Cheat, Get Pregnant: "Niko Mwisho"
- Pancras Kagoni was open with his wife about his underlying medical condition that affects his ability to impregnate a woman
- In his frustration and desperation, Kagoni, who has been married for over a decade, gave his wife permission to cheat
- Speaking to TUKO.co.ke, Kagoni from Kiambu narrated how his first marriage ended due to his fertility issues
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A man from Kiambu county has shared puzzling information about his marriage experience.
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Pancras Kagoni had previously narrated how his first wife broke her marital vows after three years.
An underlying medical issue concerning her ex-husband’s fertility saw her not only leave Kagoni but also publicise his weakness.
How did Pancras Kagoni find out about his impotence?
Speaking to TUKO.co.ke, Kagoni shared how his ex-wife ruined his reputation by making his secret public.
“I was travelling abroad for work and had visited a doctor for a test, as we had been together for over a year yet were not blessed with a child. The results were expected in two weeks, but by then I would have already left the country. I asked my ex-wife to inform me about the report once it was out. Unfortunately, it took me a while before I got a SIM card to communicate with her. During that time, one of my friends whom I had travelled with was in touch with her, since his wife was also a close friend of ours.
It was this friend who told me about the results, that in simple terms, I was impotent. It hit me hard. In doubt, I called my wife, and she read to me word for word the heartbreaking results from the doctor. I was crushed. Back home, she went on to share the delicate information with neighbours, my colleagues, friends, and even my family. It was so bad. I felt betrayed and hurt because that is not the kind of information you should make public. But that was the excuse she was looking for to leave me. I could not give her children, so what was the point of her staying with me?” he asked, noting that his marriage collapsed a couple of years later.
Kagoni's wife opens up about their first meeting
Kagoni stayed single for a while before looking for love again, as he took time to heal and get back on his feet.
He later met a woman, Margaret, who surprisingly told him about his life and family without prior knowledge.
“God had shown me in about five separate dreams about him. I saw a certain man would approach and ask for my hand in marriage. God showed me his neighbourhood, his family, and much more. I was ready for the moment,” she said.
Kagoni opens up on visiting experts, trying traditional medicines
Kagoni found true love in Margaret, but there was still one challenge: they had never been blessed with a child.
In his desperation and frustration, Kagoni revealed that he gave his second wife, Margaret, permission to look for a man who could give her a child.
“I once told my wife, instead of wasting your time, why don’t you go and get a child and we can raise it together? With me, it is not possible. I had used all the money and seen almost every doctor. I even tried traditional medicines from different cultures. I have visited experts, but nothing has worked out,” he shared.
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Kenyans react as Kiambu man allows wife to cheat
Many were puzzled by the man's decision to allow his wife to seek passion elsewhere, and wondered if his marriage would withstand such a scenario.
Here are some of the comments:
Linda Witney said:
"This has always been an African culture done secretly amongst couples."
Jane Kabui
"This man has a very painful story towards this decision. I wish you could listen to his story before judging him."
Waithera Wa Wachira said:
"Infertility hugs to everyone walking in that journey ❤️it will be okay."
Nairobi man confronts wife, her lover
In another story, drama erupted in Embakasi, Nairobi county, as a man confronted his wife and her lover.
The shocking moment was captured in a video that went viral on social media, sparking mixed reactions.
The angry man hurled several allegations against the duo as onlookers milled around them.
Racheal Nyaguthie, HoD Human Interest, added reactions to this article.
Proofreading by Jackson Otukho, copy editor at TUKO.co.ke.
Source: TUKO.co.ke
