Video of Heartbroken Kenyan Man Lamenting after Being Dumped Ignites Reactions
- A heartbroken man has been spotted complaining about a woman who left him, leaving social media users with mixed reactions
- In the video, he listed the things he had been doing for his lover and wondered if he wasn't man enough to warrant her to look for a different person
- Some netizens empathised with him and sent him comforting messages, while others kept suggesting things he may have done to push his woman away
- Relationship coach Kevin Muhia, in an interview with TUKO.co.ke, gave tips on how men can navigate breakups
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A heartbroken man has been spotted complaining about a woman who left him, leaving social media users with mixed reactions.
Source: TikTok
How woman broke Kenyan man's heart
In a video shared on TikTok by @ianno, the man, dressed in a brown coat and a blue t-shirt, is seen questioning why someone would leave him for another person.
At one point, he spoke in Kikuyu, asking what would make the lady do that, yet he had been a present lover for her.
It is unclear whether the man was simply creating content or genuinely speaking about his heartbreak, which pushed him to share his predicament.
"Imagine staying with someone and they start looking for someone as if you have become a dog. Now she is looking for a man like you're not and you are always there," he said.
Watch the video below:
How should men handle breakups
Relationship coach Kevin Muhia told TUKO.co.ke that men handle breakups differently from women.
"A man should allow yourself to feel the pain instead of bottling it up. Healing begins when you face your emotions head-on. Talk to someone you trust, whether it's a friend, therapist, or mentor, because you don’t have to carry it alone. As a man, you should also use this time to rediscover your purpose, set new goals, and remind yourself that growth often starts in the hard moments, and go out and meet new people," he said.
Here are some of the reactions from social media users:
@jackie said:
"Another satisfied client."
@jessyJey said:
"Mnaheartbreak hadi once upon a time."
@pretty kitty said:
"Yaani mmesema uncle yangu atrend social media. Anyway, Sheila wa Kariobangi we are coming for you. Huwezi vunja uncle yangu moyo hivi."
@Raychelle said:
"A woman doing the Lord's work. Yes kidole sambusa."
@Chepmercy said:
"We know he isn't talking about his wife."
@mukami said:
"Na iwe funzo."
@Connie said:
"This should have happened in your 20s, but here you are."
@zuucadey said:
"Hamuogopi laana jameni."
@sweetkeed said:
"I feel your pain daddie, but can I continue from where she left?
Source: Getty Images
How woman left loyal Bomet lover
In a related report, a man identified as Eric narrated how his woman dumped him despite his efforts to make her life better.
Eric met his partner in church, and they decided to get into a relationship but vowed to stay pure until marriage.
They dated for six years, and the banker revealed that he sponsored his woman through college and supported her until she managed to secure a teaching job.
However, when Eric decided to visit his girlfriend's family to formalise their union, she dumped him and got into a relationship with another man.
He told TUKO.co.ke how the other man sent him a message, requesting him to move on now that he had already married his ex.
Migori woman who educated lover in tears
Elsewhere, a man from Migori was recorded weeping in the streets, calling out the name of the woman he had educated.
According to him, he had been dating Phoebe and even paid her KSh 620,000 college school fees, only for her to ditch him.
His cries left many men sharing why they would never pay school fees for girlfriends, as they condemned the act.
Proofreading by Mercy Nyambura, copy editor at TUKO.co.ke.
Source: TUKO.co.ke
