Nairobi Pastor Slams Church Women Who Are Indecisive About Men: "You Confuse Blessings"
- A Nairobi pastor has sparked debate after calling out church women who entertain multiple suitors, warning that indecisiveness leads to gossip and judgment
- Apostle Dr Richard Wamalwa of ECG The Jesus Nation Church urged women to set boundaries, saying, “Don’t overuse your body. Say no when necessary”
- His remarks, which highlighted how some rely on different men for financial support, left the congregation divided
Nairobi-based preacher Apostle Dr Richard Wamalwa of ECG The Jesus Nation Church has called out women in the church who struggle with decisiveness in relationships.
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In a sermon shared on social media, the clergyman warned that such actions may lead to negative consequences.
Women need to decide, Pst Wamalwa says
Speaking during a church service, Apostle Wamalwa noted that women who entertain multiple suitors without choosing one end up being approached by all sorts of men.
"At the end of the day, you find that you’ve dated over 10 men, and they trade stories about you," he remarked, emphasizing the importance of making firm decisions in relationships.
The pastor reiterated that no woman has ever been punished for rejecting a man’s advances. He encouraged women to be firm in their decisions and avoid being swayed by material benefits.
"Such women come to church dressed elegantly, praising God, but men look at them with scorn," he observed. "Don’t overuse your body. Say no when necessary."
The pastor further criticized the trend where women benefit from multiple men for different needs, such as having their nails done by one man, their hair paid for by another, and a dress bought by a third.
"As you proclaim to God that you receive His blessings, the men you are carrying on your body are wondering which one you are receiving," he added.
Social media reactions
His remarks sparked mixed reactions, with congregants admitting that the sermon served as a call for integrity and decisiveness in relationships among churchgoers.
Tumaini Akilimali:
"This one needs to be shared everywhere my CB, go deeper sir, so powerful."
Apostle Timothy Wanjala:
"This is it. Too unfortunate that some of these men are not just members. We were those men."
Oty Fredrîck Abuya:
"These are now the teachings our sisters and daughters need to hear. However much they may not like it. Keep teaching them daktari."
Pastor criticises women who wear boring clothes to bed
In an unrelated story, Pastor Salina Jelimo advised women on how to make their relationships last while preaching at a past wedding.
The viral Kalenjin preacher blasted women for not dressing attractively, blaming them for their unhappy marriages.
She claimed that healthy marriages may have ups and downs, but women should always endeavour to maintain hygiene.
Pastor unhappy with women who use offerings to buy makeup
Elsewhere, a pastor criticised women for prioritising makeup and dresses over tithes and urged them to give offerings.
A TikTok video captured the pastor's passionate sermon, to a giggling congregation that included Pastor Wilfred Lai of Jesus Celebration Centre, Mombasa.
The pastor prayed for the women who buy expensive dresses but look cheap, emphasising the negative consequences of using tithe money for personal indulgence.
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